Posts Tagged ‘grooms’

Episode 10: Groom’s Style

Monday, November 15th, 2010

With this month’s focus on the groom and his entourage, I turn my attention to men’s style and some of the fun accessories out there to help men stand out on their big day.

We all know women have a lot of choice when it comes to their dress, but deciding what to wear can be a big decision for guys too and shouldn’t really be taken lightly. That’s why in the Butterfly Journal podcast I talk to Chris Easter the co-founder of The Man Registry, which is an online resource for grooms offering hundreds of manly wedding gifts and a collection of wedding idea articles, how-to wedding guides and resources for the groom to prepare for his big day.

Asking him some questions that men are always confronted with Chris was able to give me some tips on the following,

1. Tuxedo, Morning Suit or Casual Suit?

This comes down to personal style and your personality. Consult with the bride on the type of wedding you’re having, if it’s a church or more formal setting, a tuxedo or morning suit is the way to go.

2. To rent or buy?

There’s nothing better than having your own suit. Buy something classic, and you can wear it to other weddings and formal events in the future. However if you do rent, use the pants and the jacket but personalise with your own shirt, tie and cufflinks.

3. Getting married overseas?

If you’re getting married in a warmer climate, consider a linen suit with no tie, or something casual like a white or cream linen shirt and trousers. Some men even get married in shorts, if it’s a very casual affair!

To hear in detail more tips from Chris head to the Butterfly Journal podcast at  www.pierrecarr.com/podcast.

However I would like to point out regardless of the style you go for,  your wedding attire should be comfortable, reflect your personality and compliment your bride and the day you have planned.

Until next time, Happy Planning!

Episode 10: What about the groom?

Monday, November 1st, 2010

In this edition of The Butterfly Journal: An Inspiring Wedding Guide, host Michelle Pierre-Carr turns the spotlight onto the guys to get a grooms eye view on weddings and marriage. Hear what Steven, Scott, Isaac, Colin and Michael had to say about their big day expectations.

Episode 10: What about the groom?

Monday, November 1st, 2010

Getting married – the most important day in a girl’s life.

Some of you have dreamt about it for years – what you are going to look like, where you going to tie the knot and what theme you are going to have – that as soon as your boyfriend pops the question you don’t hesitate to start the journey of making your dream day come true.

But how many of you have actually asked what your partner thinks about your wedding plans? Do you think they are bothered that you have gone off on your own little tangent or do you think they are quite content to just turn up on the day without a care?

Well I thought I would set the record straight and find out from the men these answers. So in this month’s Butterfly Journal podcast I speak to a handful of willing victims who have between them covered all the major duties involved in a wedding from the usher to the best man and groom and asked them did they really feel sidelined when it came to planning their wedding and is the wedding as significant to them as it is to the bride and what expectations do they have for their best man, really?

In a testosterone filled room full of manly banter you may be surprised to find that these particular guys were actually happy to let their fiancée go off and do her thing just as long as they had the initial conversation at the start where the budget was set and their attire wasn’t compromised. However they are all aware that that isn’t the same for everyone. Even the proposal was of far more significance than the day itself, giving how long it took them to get the timing right. But don’t let me explain it, hear what the guys had to say in their own words.

Head to the Butterfly Journal podcast to listen to the full interview and enjoy.

Until next week Happy Planning!

Episode 3: Fad dieting for your wedding…but do you need it?

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

In the third episode of ‘The Butterfly Journal; An Inspiring Wedding Guide’  host Michelle Pierre-Carr tackles fad dieting amongst brides and grooms and speaks with three very different health and fitness professionls.  Charlene Hutsebaut co-founder of Positively Slim, explains the benefits of her online health and wellness programme.  Geeta Sidhu-Robb founder of Nosh Detox shares advice of cleansing and juicing and former Olympic athlete Jacqui Agyepong takes her through a personal fitness session and discusses what is the best and realistic way of getting slim and fit for your wedding day.

And as always Sarah Ivens best selling author of ‘A Modern Girl’s Guide to getting hitched’ and ‘A Modern Girls Guide to Etiquette’ shares some more advice on wedding diplomacy.

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Episode 3: Fad dieting for your wedding….but do you need it?

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

In an age where women strive to be a ’Size Zero’ and air brushing photos to remove every blemish of what makes us who we are is acceptable, it’s not surprising that brides will stop at nothing to go on that diet that will help them look great on their wedding day.

But if this is you - STOP!

I understand the need to lose pounds and look fabulous in your dream dress, but do it in the right way.  Fad dieting – essentially any diet that promises fast and easy weight loss – doesn’t address WHY you gained weight in the first place and definitely doesn’t educate you on the benefit of healthy eating. So the chances are, if you lose weight following a crash diet, you’ll put it all back on again.

At a time when you should be enjoying your engagement and planning your wedding, brides (and grooms!) can add more stress to their lives by counting calories and getting upset when things aren’t going to plan. That’s why this month I wanted to focus on getting brides the right information on the different weight loss and exercise options available and to offer guidance to losing weight or toning up in a healthy and more realistic way.

So in the third episode of the Butterfly Journal podcast, I speak to three very different women who are all in the health and fitness industry, but offer very different services for those who want to lose weight and get healthy.

Charlene Hutsebaut is the co-founder of Positively Slim, an online portal that deals with the whole person by covering exercise, nutrition and psychology through downloadable e-books, audio and video which helps you lose and maintain weight and get fitter.  Charlene believes in throwing away the scales (yes she does!) and thinking about getting your ideal body by making health a part of your life for the rest of your life, not just your wedding day. Hence why the portal was set up so busy people are able to get access anytime of the day.

On the food front we hear from Geeta Sidhu-Robb, founder of Nosh Detox. Her company makes and delivers healthy food and juices to a variety of people, including those who don’t have time to cook and people with special dietary needs, such as diabetics, for example.  Geeta believes it’s not only important to pick the dress of your dreams for your wedding day but also the right diet, to make sure you glow from the inside out so you can ooze ‘fabulous’.  With famous clients like Rachel Stevens and many others, one of Geeta’s tips is to ‘chew, chew and chew some more’ throwing in lots of green leaves for good measure.

And finally I spent the day being whipped into shape by former Olympic athlete, Jacqui Agyepong. Now a qualified personal trainer and sports massage specialist, Jacqui believes exercise is important for health and wellbeing to boost your confidence. But she has more of a ‘back to basics’ approach which means rather than changing your lifestyle to fit exercise in, we should build exercise into every day tasks. For example getting off the bus two stops early and walking home, taking the stairs instead of the lift and walking to the car with your shopping bags rather than pushing the trolley. Sounds easy enough!

So three different health and fitness views, but the advice from all is the same.

  • Start your new health regime as early as possible.
  • Losing weight in a healthy way will take longer than a month.
  • Make healthy living a part of life – and if you can, rope your husband to be into the plan!

Being a former international athlete myself, exercise and eating right has been a part of my life for years, but I understand that getting started can be very hard. However think of the benefits!

I hope this has helped to put fad dieting in perspective.  You can hear more by going to the Butterfly Journal’s third podcast at www.pierrecarr.com/podcast where you’ll also find details of our fantastic competition to win a luxury honeymoon in the Caribbean.

If you have any planning questions, advice to share or would like to feature on one of our future shows, get in touch! Email us at press@pierrecarr.com.

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Next month, we talk dream dresses.

Remember, planning your wedding is a journey, not your final destination!

Happy Planning!